Do you really need to toughen up? Just because we are ladies we can wear our shoes how we want and if we have to walk in these shoes we have to love em! Right?
Should you put on your tough boots?
Are you a sensitive soul?
Anyone ever tell you are too soft and you get hurt too easy?
Do you feel you tread around everyone like tiny pitter patter feet and no one gets why you are so sensitive to the world around you.
Do people say you are too sensitive?
Yep! my mum did this a few times. Since I was a little girl I had a hard time controlling my feelings and my emotions. Sad that!! As I cried at a drop of a hat yet now I have become stronger and tougher in who I am. A little attitude changed that yet not the attitude you might think. I use the message
gratitude in attitude
I generally have a big heart and care too much. It’s a personal character trait I do love because it makes me wear my heart on my sleeve. For this reason I do surround myself with positive happy people and I do have a hard time with negative people that focus on bad things happening in their life and thus try to avoid spending time with people who do not ground me for the little sensitive soul I have.
Here’s three ways to keep your sensitive side smooth
1/ believe in yourself
Enough already!! It’s time to just believe! Enough believe!
Look within yourself to seek answers and if you believe that is enough. You are enough and funny enough a new book out by Cassie Mendoza-Jones and she gives us a gorgeous understanding of believing this.
2/ focus on the good right now
If someone thinks you’re wrong or your idea is not good enough or wants to talk you down forget thinking how bad is that and allow those thoughts to run through you allow the positive of right now what is working with your goals and don’t seek out permission of others. You do not need permission to be good right now and we all are working towards big juicy goals that make us better people and make us want to be better people so soak up your soul and sensitive or not the world needs your rays of sunshine to shine over the universe.
3/ stop saying sorry!!
This is my biggest flaw! I’m sorry for everything including me! I used to work as a teacher in high school and being a perfectionist I had a hard time for not perfect but soon a lady or boss lady Katrina made me see ‘[bctt tweet=”best is your perfect “]tweet that!
It’s good you care enough to be perfect yet it’s about the experiences and the sharing that we often care too much and it’s time to stop feeling sorry and contains on caring with a big heart and big hugs and keep this world giving love. I truly believe love spreads love so keep going we live in a big world! Jules xo