In particular today I am discussing FEAR and its super important to our lives and what happens around it.
Do you fear you are not Good ENOUGH because of all the noise around you and what you see on the television, internet and hear in groups around you. Sister it is time to release that fear and unwind the truth about what is really holding you back.
Fear comes up everyday in our lives, OMG! when does it not come up and be a topic of discussion on the web, digital world or in our everyday chats on the subways, bus, trains and walks.
Just when you think I have a handle on this fear stuff!!! Guess what there it is again! WT!!!
Fear I hate you, you then feel torn between your heartfelt options and what you really feel you are able to handle in life.
The bad news is… where you are now is not where you want to be.
You might be thinking. Why is this FEAR stuff so hard to deal with… I just cant deal with this and I STOP. Stop dreaming, hoping, loving, caring about what I really want. You stop everything because of FEAR. BUT WHY???
Fear is not harmful, it’s there to help us at times when we unexpected think it’s not. But fear keeps us stable and balanced sometimes. I know it’s hard to believe but It’s like a car, its needs repairs and services time to time or it will brake down and there is no stopping it – if we don’t keep it running.
You see a car runs like us (our mindset, our body and soul) we need to refuel it, service it and keep up to date on the repairs.
Crazy that I am comparing women to cars but really men think they know us ..
well think again men.. if you are reading my FOMO blog. This is how it is. (maybe its my background of a family of vintage cars, but learnt you can fix almost anything- my dad taught me that. He was an amazing father that many lessons make sense now)
You see we really are simple. We need to cope and deal with this fear stuff to get through our roadblocks and if we hit the right lane and signal there is no stopping us ladies!!!
Starting your business FEAR will come up.
Am I good enough?
Do I deserve this?
Who am I to teach others?
I am not entitled to any money that I ask for? HELL yes you are… its not all about the money but when you are in business you need to keep the business alive and stop the fear that it will brake down too.
Now, starting a business can be the scariest thing ever, whether you are a coach, mentor, teacher, blogger, author what ever you are and want to be FEAR will come up in different ways and times. Just like happiness FEAR is a close second. Cause we focus huge amounts of time investing on our happiness our fears creep up and get us when we least expect it. Its the number one element to business, and life that really holds us back.
I am so confident that we can take FEAR by its balls and turn it around to settle the down stuff down and really – It isn’t going to be that easy. But together I know we can conquer anything; Mindset is the number 1 (one) factor that can help us beyond fear.
Whether you are launching a new ecourse, program, a campaign whatever you launch you feel FEAR.
What will people think of me?
Will people like me?
Who am I to do this?
Above everything.. you must work and share a message that you are proud of and feel holy helpful in your life. The universe is so full of many ways to serve people and if fear is holding you back stop and think why.
Its really time to stop second guessing yourself and time to get practical about fear. We often feel ashamed to talk about fear but really we should talk about it. Fear will effect someone at any point in their business or life.
With every decision you make feel like you can do it and you know fear will kick in at some point but your confidence can outweigh the factors that will mask.
The best thing you can do is follow a plan of action so you do not lose focus on what is happening around your event, launch, business campaign or speaking event.
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You can rise above fear and your ability to learn to cope and deal with it will be very useful in business and life.
But, when you have the tools you will be able to recognise your fear and be better prepared quicker,and you’ll be able to recognise your own self sabotage quicker and help you move through it as well.
You might be thinking how can I get over this and move on. What are some of the fears I have?
I have a great resource to share with you. Its here at http://www.julessnodgrass.com/fear/
You can figure out the common fears entrepreneurs have and the reason they have fears.
Once you recognise fear and understand why it comes about you can clear your mindset and control the way you feel and how you can move forward into your being the boss of your universe and your future.
This way you can be inspired by fear and avoid thinking about fear so much.
What takes up your time is the doing. The act of thinking about the fear over and over is an act of unkind regret.
Ask yourself how am I living right now in fear of moving forward or staying put. What would be your biggest regret of fear?
Please share this message of holy helpful advice and thought proving questioning which will help other entrepreneurs or women who fear of missing out and starting a business or a new venture in life.
Its our responsibility to conquer fear and its our soul that can help others in a bigger community solve this big thing topic called fear. Its an ugly topic sometimes and I know together we can solve it.
We truly are on our way and part of a powerful transformation.